And we're off to the Emergency Room Again!

And it begins...
Yesterday, around 5:00, I was talking to my sister Sammie in the living room and Ryan was playing in the basement. All of a sudden I hear Ryan crying so I start walking to the stairs, then I hear the screaming and start running down the stairs. I enter the basement to find the treadmill on and Ryan behind it screaming. At first he looked fine and so I took the key out (how did he know where the key was? How to put the key in? How to turn it on???). I look at his hand and wanted to puke! The three middle fingers on his left hand were burned, badly, from the treadmill. I don't know exactly how it happened, but it happened. So, I immediately grab Ryan, without his shoes, and throw him in the car. Luckily Sammie was at my house and could help me with Ellie. So we finally get to the docs office in Draper, after 30 minutes of waiting with traffic...argh. As soon as the doctor looked at it, he said we need to go to Primary Childrens because the burn is way too deep (you could see the bone). So, we get up to Primary's, luckily Eric was waiting for us by this point. We get into the Emergency Dept and everybody is super surprised when they actually see the burn. Poor Ryan just screamed in the car, I can't imagine the PAIN that poor kid was in. We called Eric's parents to see if his Dad could help Eric give Ryan a blessing (my parents are out of town at Girls Camp), so they came up, gave him a blessing, and took Ellie (who had already had a blowout in the Emergency Room, so she was pantless ((I am sure the hospital was very impressed.)))
So after doctor after doctor came in. They took Ryan to get some x-rays done of his fingers, just to make sure none of them were broken. Thank goodness none of them were. The x-rays did show that the burn, burned all of the skin down to the bone and part of the joint. So, next we know there is a hand surgeon in the room. They came and looked at his fingers, looking concerned. They said that we could either follow up with them or the burn unit, but we decided if there was a problem while they were in surgery we would prefer to have a hand specialist in on it. They were so so so friendly and got us in early this morning (we need to be to the hospital at 6:30), They bumped some other patients because they want to small ones done first, so they don't need to go all day without food. So, more than likely Ryan will have a skin graft in a couple of hours. They will try to close it up, but don't think there is enough skin to do so. I'm just nervous about the anesthesia. They will, obviously, be putting him under and I am super scared to give him away. The surgery should only take 30-60 minutes. I can't believe how fast this is all happening. Poor Ryan looks like he has a boxing glove on because they wrapped it so big in the Emergency Room.
It kills me how much of a trooper Ryan is. When the hand surgeon came in the room last night, Ryan just put his hand out there for him to look at. He even pointed to where his owie was. He was happy to have so many batman stickers and be able to watch Cinderella and Ariel in the emergency room. What a day, and it has barely begun. So...if any of Haley's med friends are reading this and have some knowledge in hand, ortho, surgery, what am I looking at here???
I am very hopeful that things will go well tomorrow. The hard thing is the uncertainty and the recovery!
Hopefully, next time I write it will be with better news. But this could have been so much worse and we are so lucky that he is going to be just fine. It was his left hand, not his right (that he is prominent with), and it isn't going to be super noticeable. I just need to be done and try to sleep for an hour of so before we leave!

Yes, we are still alive!!

So many things have been going on this last month. I can't believe that it has been over a month since I last posted. This post is all over the place...just warning.

I have finally started taking pictures again, so get ready for picture overload.

Sorry, for some reason this picture is sideways and I can't figure out how to rotate it. I just loved this picture of Ellie and her cousin, Nikki.

Ryan had this love for the helmet one day, I love the one with the butt crack showing :)

Ellie's first smile caught on camera!! We soon after realized she had just pooped in the tub. No wonder she smiled!!

Update on Mom.

My Mom, since the last post, spent more time in the hospital and a couple of weeks at a rehab hospital. She is finally home and doing so well. She certainly is not completely better, but she is doing so much better. She is walking with crutches and sometimes takes a couple of steps on her own. Her neck brace came off and she only wears it while she is in the car. At therapy the other day the physical therapist told her that if her vertebrae that broke touched her spinal column it would have instantly killed her. It's amazing how she was protected. I am forever thankful to the emergency workers who were so gentle with her at the accident scene. So that is the update with Mom...

What is new with us??

Eric received his license!! He is now a practicing Architect...Congrats honey!

Ellie slept through the night last night, she went to bed at 10:00 and woke up to eat at 6:30. It was truly wonderful.

Ryan is well. We think he's had some allergies this year, are we surprised? He does seem to get everything and anything.

Eric's brother, Kevin, got married last week. Here are some pics from the wedding.

Here is a pic of our little family

Me and Ellie

Ryan

Updates

What a crazy couple of days!

My mom is still in the hospital and probably will be there for the next 4 to 5 days. They were hoping to move her to a rehabilitation center today, but there were problems with her blood oxygen levels. They took her in for more x-rays today to try to find the problem. They found 2 blood clots in her lungs. They are small, but nonetheless they are there. So they will be putting her on blood thinners to help. They also found that there was some damage to the spleen. So while she is on the blood thinners they will be monitoring the spleen closely, if it continues to bleed they will take her into the OR and remove the spleen. They moved her 2 days ago to a regular room, but they are moving her back up to the ICU today so they can monitor her more closely. I was really hoping we could get her home in the next week, but it doesn't look like that is going to happen. Although, she was able to move herself from her bed to a recliner with the help of a walker and an Occupational Therapist/Physical Therapist. That is a huge step, but the blood clots put her a step behind.

As for what is going on with us, Ryan has been playing at Grandma Jones' house the last couple of days, so we could keep him and Ellie apart so Ellie wouldn't get sick. It was nice to be able to take Ellie to the hospital and let my mom love her for a little bit. It will be good when she is out of ICU so the kids can see her again.

Ellie is just growing and it makes me sad to think that she isn't going to be a teeny newborn for very long. She is just too cute and captures the attention of anybody who gets a glimpse of her. She is sleeping pretty good during the night, considering she is a newborn. Ryan is still adjusting to a little sister, but he has been so good today. My wonderful neighbor Holly came over to day and helped me clean my house. I was embarrassed to have her see it, but it is so nice and clean now...thanks Holly! I just wanted to thank everybody for their calls and sentiments, it has been an extremely emotional week, especially since I just had a baby, and I am so thankful for such wonderful friends and neighbors and especially family who have been here when I need them.

I'll now attach some cute pics of my little family!!

This is going to be a long one!

To preface this entry...
I am writing this more for my own memory (because I suck at journaling). I am not writing this to get pity from anybody, only to document for myself this day!

Last night Ryan started coughing around 12:30 am. It was a nasty croupy cough and he had spiked a fever. I immediately got paranoid. How could Ryan get sick right now? I have a 5 day old baby at home. He cannot get her sick. I sat in bed crying a good chunk of the night. Eric slept on an air mattress in Ryan's room because we didn't want him near the baby.

So, in the morning, we decided that we were going to take him to the doctor. We did make it to the ward Easter Egg Hunt (Ryan and I). After that was over we went to the doctor. I was given the run down by Karla (the pediatrician...thanks Karla!!). Because I haven't slept in the past week I am clearly emotional and my tears are always near if not on the surface. After giving me a hug and telling me everything will be okay, Ryan and I came home.
We went and bought more Purell and are keeping Ryan as far away from the baby as we can.

I have been so worried about Ellie that my dad came over and he and Eric gave Ellie a blessing. After they were done, they took Ryan so I could have some peace of mind. Eric and I ran a couple of errands and came home. I got everything out to do Easter baskets when Eric got a call saying that my parents and Ryan had been in a car accident. My mom was taken by ambulance to IMC and Ryan was taken by ambulance to Primary Children's. My sister, Kara, came within minutes and took Ellie and Eric and I raced to the hospital because Ryan had been transported by himself. When we finally made it to the hospital and ran to the Emergency Room, they sent us back and I could hear the cries of my little baby boy. The poor thing was terrified. The car was broadsided and Ryan was on the side of the car that was hit. I can't imagine the terror of my little boy as he was in the accident and then taken by strangers to a hospital where he knew nobody. It took him quite some time after we got there to calm down, and with good reason, he was so scared!! After an hour or so at the hospital and after the Doctor finding out I had had a baby on Monday, she quickly released us and let us know that he was completely fine and that we shouldn't have anything to worry about...

On the other hand, my Mom didn't get so lucky. She has a couple broken ribs, her pelvis is broken in a couple of different places and has a broken vertebrae in her neck. Luckily her spinal cord is fine. The doctors will decide in the morning what the course of action will be for her. She is currently in ICU since she has the broken vertebrae in her neck and tomorrow we will know more. Luckily she has no recollection of the accident. She is in lots of pain and her full recovery will probably take a while. She will be fine, but if you've read this would you please remember her in your prayers , even if you don't know her?

I am so grateful that my dad is ok, and that he was able to take care of things after the accident. I am also so thankful for the hand of the Lord in keeping my Mom and Ryan with us right now. I know that it will be a while until things get back to normal and until my Mom is fully recovered, but I am so grateful that she will make a full recovery and that she will be fine.

Sorry if you had to sit through all of this, but again it is for my memory. I really should start writing these things in a journal, but for right now this is going to have to do.

She's Here!!

Ellie Belle Jones

Born 9:15 am

7 lbs 2 oz

21 1/2 inches

The big day has finally arrived!!! Eric and I came into Labor and Delivery last night because I wasn't feeling the baby moving as much and as soon as we got settled, she started moving a ton. So, I was sure we would be going home, but to my surprise my contractions were every 1 1/2 minutes so they decided to keep me. Hooray!!!

We came into the hospital at 11:00, well my body dilated from a 6 to a 10 rather quickly and after 5 minutes of pushing she came out. Screaming and all! It was glorious to hear! She has been so good so far. She just sleeps, doesn't eat much yet and is so cute.

Ryan has some adjusting to do. He was not impressed with Ellie!! He absolutely freaked out when Eric was holding her. These next few weeks will be very interesting.

I have a 2 year old!

I cannot believe it, but Ryan turned 2 years old this week. I thought that I would make the day special and we could do lots of fun things. Well, Ryan had a different idea. He acted like since he had just turned 2, he could officially enter the terrible two's. Wow, he was a handful that day. So, the day finally started to look up around 5:00 in the evening when Eric got home. Who knows, maybe Ryan just needed a break from me. So, needless to say the only fun things we did on his birthday was BBQ in the back yard, open gifts and play outside. Which was so much fun!!!

He was really excited to get his little hammer and nail set. I think he just loves the fact that he can hit it as hard as he wants and he doesn't get in trouble!

His little T-ball set. He takes it with him all over the house. He even put it in his room last night when he went to sleep. He is so funny!!

This was our attempt at making a basketball cake (hey don't judge, I am no artist!!!). I loved this picture of him blowing out his candles. I love my little Birthday Boy!!

I had a doctor appointment on Thursday and the doctor checked me and I am now 3 cm dilated. Still 25% effaced. Who knows, we may have our little girl within the next little while!!!

Another baby update!

So, I feel like this baby has completely taken over our lives, and she isn't even born yet. The latest news with her, is she ended up turning on her own. Hooray!!! I am also 1 1/2 cm dilated and 20% effaced. Let's hope she'll stay in for another week and a half, and then as far as I'm concerned I'm ready! I have been contracting like crazy and am so excited to finally have her. Especially now that a c-section is unlikely!

Ryan turns 2 years old next week and I just can't believe how big he is getting. He is talking so much more and one of the funnest sayings is "I don't want to." Oh wait, maybe it's "my turn," yeah he is getting really good and talking back. But he is still such a sweetheart and helps me out so much. He helps me clean and hates being messy. I am so lucky to have him and are so excited for this little girl to come into the fam. We'll keep you posted.